You know they're all the same, you know you're doing better on your own so don't buy in.. Live right now, just be yourself. It doesn't matter if that's good enough for someone else.
The energy from the butterfly flutters beside us as we undergo great transformation. Just like the butterfly you must go through some distress. Try to be extra patient and kind with yourself. Let others surround you like a cocoon during this change. When in balance the butterfly is cheerful and graceful. When out of balance you are frustrated and fragile. Start a daily routine for balance. Try meditating, going for a walk, or a ritual in the morning. It does wonders for your day.